Myth: Kanaka Kamaliʻi WM ua hana ʻia no nā kāne. ʻAʻole i hana ʻia nā pēpē wahine no ka wahine hoʻokahi, ʻo kā lākou mea kūʻai aku e pili ana i nā kāne a pau, ʻaʻole wale nā kāne a me nā wahine, akā ʻo nā hui transgender. ʻO nā kikoʻī, nā hiʻohiʻona a me nā hiʻohiʻona o kēlā me kēia pēpē aloha i hana ʻia no nā hui e pono ai. Ma ka ʻuhane o kahi hui mālama mālama. ʻO ka hapa nui o ka poʻe nona nā mea a male paha e hoʻonui i kekahi mau lilo, kūʻai aku no kā lākou mau hoa, kūʻai, hiki i ka poʻe makemake e noho kaʻawale ke hoʻemi i kēia ʻāpana o nā lilo, pono wale nō e loaʻa i kahi pēpē moe ʻaʻole ʻai a inu ʻole. ʻO ke aloha aloha he manaʻo, ʻo nā mea āpau wale nō ka poʻe i ka honua ke hoʻomaopopo.
Ma o nā pēpē aloha, aʻo ʻia nā nani a me nā pākeke e aloha i ko lākou kino a maikaʻi. Ma waho o kou mau waiwai kino, e like me nā puʻu nani a i ʻole nā puʻu kaumaha, nā ʻano ʻano pepeke wahine e hoʻomaopopo i nā kaikamahine he nani ko lākou kino a ʻaʻole pono lākou e hoʻonāukiuki i ko lākou helehelena. Ma hope o ka ʻauʻau ʻana, hoʻomaloʻo i ka ʻili o ka pēpē, mai hoʻomaloʻo i ka pēpē; akā, e hoʻohana i kahi kāwele microfiber.
Eia kekahi, ke lawe ʻoe i ka pēpē wahine anime mai loko mai o ka ʻauʻau ʻauʻau, e mālama pono i ka pēpē i ka lumi wela. Pehea e hiki ai i kahi mea pāʻani ke hāʻawi i kekahi i ke ʻano o ke kanaka, a maʻalahi hoʻi e hoʻololi i ka wahine i ka wā moe, ʻoiaʻiʻo e hōʻeha ʻoe iā ʻoe. Eia naʻe, pololei loa kēia. Nui nā kumu ikaika e hoʻomaka ai ʻoe e manaʻoʻiʻo hiki ke hāʻawi maoli i kahi pēpē wahine kūpono iā ʻoe ma mua o ka wahine.
Ua ʻike ʻo Shirley lāua ʻo Huilin i nā pilikia pili kānāwai e kū ai kā lāua ʻoihana a nīnau i kekahi loio. Ua haʻi aku nā loio iā lākou ʻaʻole e kū i kā lākou hui hou i nā pilikia pili kānāwai. Makemake paha ʻo ia i ke kanaka iwi ʻaoʻao, a i ʻole makemake ʻo ia e moe me kahi kanaka pōkole a momona. Loaʻa nā koho like ʻole o nā kaikamahine like ʻole. No laila, ʻo kāu kuleana mua e nīnau i nā makemake o kāu hoa ma mua o ka hana ʻana i ka koho hope.
Eia kekahi, 100% like me he mea lā ʻaʻole maoli, akā hiki i kā mākou kaʻina hana i kēia manawa ke hoʻokō i kahi like o kahi 90% a 95%. Eia kekahi, inā hoʻohana kekahi i nā kiʻi i paʻi malū ʻia a loaʻa ʻole paha ma o nā ala kūpono ʻole, e loaʻa iā mākou nā pilikia hewa e like me nā kuleana kiʻi. No laila, pono e hoʻomaka ka hana holoʻokoʻa me ka hōʻoia o ka pilina, kahi pilikia loa.
Ma ke kahua nonmedical, ʻike ʻole ʻia ka loneliness a me ka piʻi ʻana o nā pilikia olakino. I ka makahiki 2017, ua hoʻopuka mua ʻo US Secretary of Health Vivic Murty i kahi ʻatikala e pili ana i ka hana a me ka mehameha ma ka Harvard Business Review. Ua kuhikuhi ʻo ia: "I koʻu mau makahiki o ka mālama ʻana i nā maʻi, ʻo ka maʻi maʻamau ʻaʻole ka maʻi puʻuwai a i ʻole ka maʻi diabetes, akā me ka mehameha. Mai ka makahiki 1980, ua pālua ʻia kēia loneliness."
