Me kahi ola Kamaliʻi WM, hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i nā ʻano noʻonoʻo a me nā hoʻokolohua e like me kou makemake me ka hopohopo ʻole e hōʻole iā ʻoe. Eia kekahi, he nui nā mea hana e ʻae iā ʻoe e hoʻopilikino, hiki iā ʻoe ke koho i kāu mea e pono ai mai luna a lalo, mai loko a i waho. He nui nā ʻano hoʻonohonoho pilikino o kēia mau pēpē moe, hiki ke hoʻomaopopo i ka makemake a me ka makemake ʻole o ka mea nona ka makemake a me nā makemake holoʻokoʻa, pane i ka hoʻopā ʻana i ke kanaka, hiki ke neʻe nā wahi āpau o ke kino, a e like me nā kānaka maoli, hiki i nā pēpē moe ke loaʻa i ko lākou mau manaʻo ponoʻī.
Wahi a ka noiʻi hou loa o ka heluna kanaka, ʻo ka lakio o kēia manawa o nā kāne i nā wahine ma kahi o 116:100, ʻoi aku ka kiʻekiʻe ma mua o ka waiwai maʻamau o 107:100. ʻO ka hopena, ʻo ia ka hemahema o nā wahine. Ua ʻōlelo ʻo Liu Lan: "He nui nā kāne Kina maikaʻi e paʻakikī i ka loaʻa ʻana o nā hoa wahine a male. No laila, koho lākou i nā pēpē moe. I ka moe ʻana me nā pēpē, pono e hoʻohana i ka lubricant. Eia naʻe, ʻaʻole kūpono nā lubricants a pau no ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka ʻili o kahi pēpē. Hiki i nā lubricants hoʻokumu i ka silikon ke hōʻino i nā mea TPE.
No laila, no ka mālama ʻana, ʻōlelo ʻia ʻaʻole e hoʻohana i ia mau lubricants. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻāʻo i nā lubricants wai a i ʻole nā lubricant ʻē aʻe, e like me ka ʻaila pēpē a me ka petrolatum. E lawelawe lākou i kāu kumu me ka ʻole e hōʻino i kāu pēpē nani. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻoponopono i ko lākou leo a hoʻoponopono i ko lākou helehelena i ke ʻano kūpono loa iā ʻoe. ʻO nā pēpē moe wahine kahi pani no ka poʻe ʻaʻole nui ka manawa i ka lā. No ka poʻe me ka manawa liʻiliʻi, ʻo ka launa pū kekahi mea hana nui. ʻAʻole hiki i ka poʻe hana i nā hola lōʻihi ke launa pū no ka manawa lōʻihi, a hāʻawi nā pēpē wahine i ka ʻūhā a lākou i makemake mau ai.
I kēia manawa, ua ʻike nā kānaka i ke koʻikoʻi o ka loiloi ʻana iā lākou iho. ʻO ia mau kānaka makemake e launa pū me pēpē wahine anime no ka mea hiki iā ia ke lawe mai iā lākou i ka ʻoluʻolu a me ka hauʻoli. ʻO ka hopena, ua hoʻonui ʻia ka noi no nā pēpē sex. Eia naʻe, he mau wānana wale nō kēia mau wānana a ʻaʻohe kumu maoli. ʻAʻohe mea hōʻike e hōʻoiaʻiʻo e hiki i nā pēpē aloha ke hoʻopilikia i ke kanaka a me ke kaiāulu. Ma ke ano o ke kanaka, e lilo anei ia i mea pani no kekahi poe?
A i ʻole e hoʻoikaika lākou i ka pilina ma waena o nā mea pāʻani ʻelua? He nui na mea pohihihi e pili ana ia mea. Hiki ke kaulana loa nā pēpē wahine i nā makahiki mua o ko lākou helehelena, a ʻike ʻia ka makemake o ka mākeke. Manaʻo ʻia e piʻi nui nā kūʻai aku ma ʻAmelika i ka wā e hiki mai ana. No laila, he aha ke kumu o ka kaulana? Ma hope o ka hoʻoponopono ʻana a me ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana, e hoʻopaʻa inoa i kēia mau ʻaoʻao ʻeono: ʻO ka nūhou weliweli loaʻa iā ʻoe kekahi mau pilikia ola. Loaʻa i kekahi poʻe clichés e pili ana i kēia. ʻO ka manaʻo ʻike ʻole o kekahi poʻe e ʻae ʻoe he misogynist ʻoe, hana ʻoe i nā wahine ma ke ʻano he mea, a ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa nā pilina maʻamau. Eia nā lula maʻalahi 7 e kōkua iā ʻoe:
