Pehea e hana ʻia ai nā pēpē wahine a me kona mōʻaukala kahiko

I kēia manawa e ʻike ʻia nei nā hopena ʻino o ka loneli a hōʻoia ʻia, he aha kā mākou e hana ai? I ka manaʻo o nā hoʻoponopono urdoll, pēpē aloha hiki paha ke hāʻawi i ke kākoʻo naʻau. He mea maoli ia, hiki ke hāʻawi i nā hiʻohiʻona maoli a maoli hoʻi, a hiki ke hoʻokani i kahi kuleana nui i ka hakakā ʻana i ka mehameha, ke kaumaha, a me ka hopohopo.

Akā inā ʻoe e hoʻohana i kēia pēpē aloha e kōkua i kou pilina, ʻaʻole ʻoe e noho pū kekahi me kekahi, ʻaʻole anei hauʻoli ʻoe? Inā he wahi ʻokoʻa ka ipo wahine, hiki i kēia pēpē ke hoʻonā i ka kaumaha psychological o ka hiki ʻole ke hele pū me ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe. Inā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke koho a kūʻai mai paha i ka pēpē aloha āu e makemake ai, makehewa kāu hoʻokomo kālā ʻana iā lākou. No laila, paipai ʻia ʻoe e koho i pēpē aloha aloha nāu.

Inā hoʻoholo ʻoe e kūʻai i kēlā pēpē wahine anime, pono ʻoe e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ma lalo e loaʻa ai kahi koho maikaʻi aʻe. E aloha aku paha kekahi iā ʻoe, akā inā ʻoe e aloha i kahi pēpē moekolohe ʻAsia, e pili mau kēia me ʻoe. Me ka loli o nā hanauna, ke hana nei nā kānaka i nā hana nui, a me nā hana o kēia manawa, ke hoʻomākaukau nei lākou i ke ʻano maikaʻi o ke ola, hiki i ka leʻaleʻa ke maʻalahi i ke ola. Aia kekahi mau ʻoihana e hiki ke hāʻawi iā ʻoe i nā pēpē wahine maikaʻi ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma ke ʻano he ipo me ka ʻole o nā pilikia pili i ka hana.

I ke kamaʻilio pū ʻana me ia, aia paha he ʻano pohihihi ʻole i kona manaʻo. He kāne waena ʻo ia ma kahi o 50 mau makahiki a he kaikamahine nona ka makahiki 20. ʻO kēia ka ʻohana kahi i hānau ʻia ai ʻo ia. Ua hānai ʻo ia i kāna kaikamahine e ia iho mai ka wā he 8 ona makahiki a ua ola ʻo ia ma ke ʻano he makua. No ka pehea o kāna wahine, he mea kūpono ʻole no nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e noi, akā ʻaʻole ia he mea leʻaleʻa, e like me ke kamaʻilio ʻana. ʻ saidlelo ʻo Henry: "E kumakaia ka poʻe, akā ʻaʻole makemake nā pēpē aloha."

ʻO ke aloha i kēia au e like me ka lio a me ka pua. ʻ freelelo ʻia he manuahi a maʻalahi hoʻi ia, akā ua mae iki nō hoʻi. E noʻonoʻo e lilo i hihiu me kāu kāne a tpe pēpē wahine ma waena o nā lau, a he mea maikaʻi loa ia. ʻAʻole anei? He aha kāu e kali nei? E kūʻai i ka pēpē i kēia manawa a hāʻawi i kāu hoa aloha. Inā ʻoe e noho ana ma Norewai, hiki iā ʻoe ke kūʻai aku i nā pēpē moe, akā inā ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake e hoʻopau i ka uku nui a i ʻole 3 mau makahiki i loko o ka hale paʻahao, aia kekahi kānāwai e pono ai ʻoe e hoʻolohe. Ma mua o 2017, ua kau inoa ka ʻAha Kiekie Norewai i ke kānāwai e pāpā ana i nā kamaʻāina mai ke kūʻai ʻana i nā pēpē moe ma lalo o 125 knm ma muli o ka hopohopo e pili ana nā pēpē wahine nani i ka hoʻomāinoino.

Ua komo ka mea i haku ʻo Steven Shubin i ke ʻano o nā pēpē synthetic i ka makahiki 1995. Ma ke ʻano he kanaka hana a he loea, ua noi ʻo ia i kahi palapala no kahi mannequin i piha me ka elastomer aila. Ma hope mai, ua noi ʻo ia i palapala Sila Nui no kāna mea i haku ai i ka makahiki 1996, a ua kapa ʻia ka inoa ʻo "Flurdollshlight". Pehea i hana ʻia ai ka pēpē a me kona mōʻaukala kahiko. Ua hana nā luina mai ka ʻāina Farani i kēia mau pēpē mai ka ʻili i uhi ʻia me ka pālau, a waiho i kekahi mau pēpē i ke kālepa me Iapana i ka 18 kenekulia. Kapa ka Kepanī iā ia ʻo "Wife Dutch", ʻo ia ka inoa o kahi pēpē hana maikaʻi ʻole.